DENNIS WILSON BASH
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Many of the "VIPs" had congregated in the restaurant by this time, so it seemed like an appropriate moment to ask people to step up to the microphone and share some of their memories of Dennis with the rest of us. Jon comfortably wore the master of ceremonies mantle as, one by one, friends and family shared some of their favorite Denny anecdotes, and talked about the times they spent with him. Those who shared their stories with us included Eddy Medora, Marilyn Wilson Rutheford, Diane Rovell, Ginger Blake, Stephen Kalinich, David Marks, Garby Leon, Billy Hinsche, and a few other friends. It was truly a memorable series of speeches.
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![]() Eddy Medora |
![]() Marilyn |
![]() Diane |
![]() Ginger |
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![]() Garby Leon |
![]() David Marks |
![]() Billy Hinsche |
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With the phrase "...and now, the man who wrote Little Bird", Jon introduced Steve Kalinich to the audience. Steve said a few words about working and spending time with Dennis, and then launched into a powerful performance of a poem he introduced as "Galactic Symphony". The poem started out quietly -- thoughtfully, but soon began to build in intensity. The momentum of the reading increased until Steven's words were landing on the ear with a driving, rhythmic force. There was a sense of awe in the room. Steve had the crowd in the palm of his hand. Many felt that his performance served as a sort of culmination of the day. Not only was it a powerful poem, but the performance seemed to give voice to others that felt such a strong spirit in the place, but might not have known quite how to articulate it. The power of that moment seemed not to emerge from sentimentality or nostalgia, but out of pure, honest artistic expression. What a strong summation of the Day's events. The following is a transcript of the poem Steven Kalinich performed during his turn at the mic. He ended the reading with the simple phrase "I love you Dennis".
A TALE OF MAN LOVE ALONE CAN HEAL
Never before in Galactic span
At this point in the evening it seemed only fitting that we collectively honor the man who provided the unique location where such an event as this could only happen. Jay Fiondella has been the owner of historic Chez Jay's for over 44 years. In that time, his establishment has seen a lot of great moments(soon to be documented in a handsome book by Jon Stebbins - see link below), and the Dennis Wilson Bash was one more notable day in this impressive history. Jon summoned Jay up to the microphone, and Jon and Betty presented Jay with a beautiful plaque commemorating the event. Inscribed on the plaque were the words
"Thanks for giving us a great place to party.", along with the date, Dennis
Wilson Bash, an official poster and two signature sticks mounted in the frame.
Jay said a few words about how much he enjoyed spending time with Dennis at the restaurant, and how much he loved him as a friend. Jay seemed honestly moved by the moment as the crowd expressed their appreciation.
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It was a surprise to many in the crowd that 5:00 had arrived, and it was time to make Chez Jay's look like a restaurant again. The crowd moved outside to gather for the group photo (see next page), while others moved the tables back into position for the dinner crowd, which included many of the Bash attendees who had made reservations. People huddled in the parking lot and on the sidewalk in front, making dinner plans, hugging, trading addresses, phone numbers, and well-wishes. Some wandered back into the restaurant to get a table, or just to get one last glance of the Denny-covered walls. A sense of well-being, love, thankfulness, and maybe even a little relief seemed to settle on the crowd as they said their goodbys.
Said Jon Stebbins later: "Bobby Figuroa's brother Junior ended my night by idling by me in the parking lot, behind the wheel of his gleaming black '69 Charger(a car that Dennis loved and rode in w/Junior often). Junior grinned at me and Mike Meros in mid-conversation, brought the RPM's of his built 383 mopar monster up a little, and smoked the tires across the Chez Jay's parking lot into the night. Dennis was smiling." Amen!
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